ADD/ADHD
BILL OF RIGHTS
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February 10, 2005
Actually it is Feb.14th so HAPPY VALENTINES DAY TO ALL
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DIAGNOSIS ADD ADHD Now What?
Published 10th, 20th & 30th of each month -- USUALLY
** PLEASE SEE DISCLAIMER AT THE END OF THIS DOCUMENT! **
Bill of Rights for Children with ADD
with a little creative thinking, you can see this is for adults too.
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HELP ME TO FOCUS ...
Please teach me through my sense of touch.
I need "hands-on" and body movement.
I
NEED TO KNOW WHAT COMES NEXT ...
Please give me a structured environment where there is a dependable routine.
Give me an advance warning if there will be changes.
WAIT FOR ME, I'M STILL THINKING ...
Please allow me to go at my own pace.
If I'm rushed, I get confused and upset.
I'M STUCK, I CAN'T DO IT! ...
Please offer me options for problem solving.
If the road is blocked, I need to know the detours.
IS
IT RIGHT? I NEED TO KNOW NOW ...
Please give me rich and immediate feedback on how I'm doing.
I DIDN'T KNOW I WASN'T IN MY SEAT! ...
Please remind me to stop, think, and act.
AM I ALMOST DONE? ...
Please give me short work periods with short-term goals.
WHAT? ...
Please don't say "I already told you that."
Tell me again, in different words.
Give me a signal. Draw me a symbol.
I KNOW IT'S ALL WRONG, ISN'T IT? ...
Please give me praise for partial success.
Reward me for self-improvement, not just for perfection.
BUT
WHY DO I ALWAYS GET YELLED AT? ...
Please catch me doing something right and praise me for the specific positive behavior.
Remind me--and yourself--about my good points when I'm having a bad day.
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IT'S YOUR CHOICE
Understanding helps!
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DISCLAIMER
This information is for educational purposes only. Much of the information is from classes and workshops I’ve taken during my 33 years of working with ADD & ADHD students – sprinkled with my own comments, thoughts and insights.
Some information has been acquired from the INTERNET. Be aware that not all information on the WWW is accurate. Use your own judgment.
This information is not intended to replace information from your doctor, therapist, lawyer, psychologist, nutritionist or psychiatrist. Consult your child’s (or your own) doctor for additional input
Editor: BJ Madewell
Wichita, KS area
316-733-9532
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